One, Two, Three… Counting

Helena Perez Garcia

Women, young and old, have often called me careless and irresponsible for the assaults and harassment I have faced in life.

I think of them and wonder, what violence would they have had to go through to begin putting the onus of such savagery on fellow women?




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